addition to the  former daily---"practice to the best"

        During yesterday's lecture, the speakor also gave us an introduction to her book---THE EFFECTIVE PERSONS' 7 HABITS" 

         Here I have noted down the seven habits for the effective persons, by the speaker. And following by my seven reflection to them.

H1 for habit 1:

               BE  PROACTIVE

REFLECTION 1:      

Fully leverage your strength and not be too easy to give up one idea or project because when we should be accountable for our choice. And in addition, solutions are everywhere. The point is how we can fit it out.

H2:

     BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND-------about personal mission

REFLECTION 2:            

Set a target for your life and to be a friend of some gay. Friends will be always willing to help you .

H3:

      FIRST THING FIRST

REFLECTION 3:

         Should be clear what are the things you may not have chance to do it again.

         When execute a mission, think over that what are the most effective ways to do it.

H4:

      THINK WIN—WIN

REFLECTION 4:

        When doing business, the first thing to be consider should be that what benefit can you bring to you target cooperator or consumer, and then come to the interest the business may bring to you.

H5:

      EMPATHY LISTENING & SYNERGIZE

REFLECTION 5:

          Embrace the difference and try to understanding what the customers(cooperators) need and think out a pre-solution for the future cooperation.

H6

             missed

REFLECTION 6:

            really pity for my absent minded and miss this important habit.

H7:

        SHARPEN THE SAW

REFLECTION 7:

      You don’t know you don’t know but you can learn to know what you don’t know.  Always quest and practice to the best.

              As a Chinese saying goes” learning is one of the most important capacity.”

             So, I still believe.

            I believe that one day I could be the gay standing on the platform.

           I don’t believe in God, but I still believe that difficulties are the gilf from God.

           So, i believe life is life,.

           what i can do now is that, enjoy it.

           But never forget to set a target for yourself at a proper time.

            9:30        优秀辅导员评比-------去凑个数吧,呵

       10:35       无聊的英语课中--------佩服老师的口语,不过这更让自己望尘莫及

                 啊,唉...........

       12:00       终于下课拉,不过工作又来拉,奔赴饭堂询看网球赛的报名情况,顺便

                 帮忙.....--------场面还不错吗,哈

       13:30       终于收工可以回宿舍拉-------------这下可喘口气拉,可事情总不

                会朝着你想的方向发展的.

       13:35       康师傅来电话讲海报横幅的修改事项.......

       14:20      赴课室上课,连续四节市场营销------唉,想不发困还真

              难,好在中途有事做,不断的短信跟康师傅交涉,而幸免与周

              公打交道

      17:35       终于放学了,与副主席等人去领修改的横幅海报补丁,结果还

                             未做好,在那吵了半小时后让他马上做,几人先去饭堂吃饭........

      18:35       吃饭中.........

      19:10       吃饭后回去拿,结果还在做,要再等半小时才能弄好,只好傻

                              傻的等拉.......

      19:40       终于弄出来了,可要自己裁纸,-------我晕,靠....

      20:10       终于搞掂回宿舍拉,查看康师傅的邮件,发现记分牌还有问

                              题,自己操刀修改再发过去,又用了近半个小时,

      20:35       再打电话过去与康师傅交涉又用了近二十多分钟,才把事情

                            确定下来,放下电话,开始写日记.........-------the only time for myself 

                           today, 唉

      21:02       终于写完日记,结果开会时间到了,唉.... ----难道我

              真的是铁人吗???

Everything happens to you is a gift from God, no matter bad or good. In my opinion, life is so colorful.

I’m an optimism. As a old saying goes, ‘life is a life, fight for it.’ Different people may have different views toward life. Some may thinks that life is a nightmare. Some may looks life as an angel. That is the result of their different attitude to their own lives. To myself, life is just a song. I can sing it whenever I want.

Anyone who thinks life is a nightmare may hardly succeed because he thinks that everything around he is turn down him. But what I want to say is how important attitude is throughout your life. You are beautiful if you think you are. There's no secret. Do you why all brides are beautiful? Because on their wedding day they care about how they look. There are ugly women only when they don't care or they don't believe they're attractive. In the same way, if you think you are capable for the thing you are going to deal with, then you will make it at last. Believe me, life will never turns down anyone who is full of confidence.

If unfortunately, life pushes you down. Never mind, just stand up and push back.

We, human beings, are the most wise and creative animals in the world. We are full of energy. We can move ourselves forward around any obstacle. Don't let anything stop us. Take strength from meeting the challenges, and move ahead. The difficulty we face are just what we need to fulfill our potential for greatness. Consider the ways in which we have grown, the things we have learned, and our accomplishments. Most of these probably came from overcoming some challenge which make us stronger.

So my conclusion is never pessimistic to yourself, your own life. Never forget that nothing is impossible.