addition to the  former daily---"practice to the best"

        During yesterday's lecture, the speakor also gave us an introduction to her book---THE EFFECTIVE PERSONS' 7 HABITS" 

         Here I have noted down the seven habits for the effective persons, by the speaker. And following by my seven reflection to them.

H1 for habit 1:

               BE  PROACTIVE

REFLECTION 1:      

Fully leverage your strength and not be too easy to give up one idea or project because when we should be accountable for our choice. And in addition, solutions are everywhere. The point is how we can fit it out.

H2:

     BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND-------about personal mission

REFLECTION 2:            

Set a target for your life and to be a friend of some gay. Friends will be always willing to help you .

H3:

      FIRST THING FIRST

REFLECTION 3:

         Should be clear what are the things you may not have chance to do it again.

         When execute a mission, think over that what are the most effective ways to do it.

H4:

      THINK WIN—WIN

REFLECTION 4:

        When doing business, the first thing to be consider should be that what benefit can you bring to you target cooperator or consumer, and then come to the interest the business may bring to you.

H5:

      EMPATHY LISTENING & SYNERGIZE

REFLECTION 5:

          Embrace the difference and try to understanding what the customers(cooperators) need and think out a pre-solution for the future cooperation.

H6

             missed

REFLECTION 6:

            really pity for my absent minded and miss this important habit.

H7:

        SHARPEN THE SAW

REFLECTION 7:

      You don’t know you don’t know but you can learn to know what you don’t know.  Always quest and practice to the best.

Everything happens to you is a gift from God, no matter bad or good. In my opinion, life is so colorful.

I’m an optimism. As a old saying goes, ‘life is a life, fight for it.’ Different people may have different views toward life. Some may thinks that life is a nightmare. Some may looks life as an angel. That is the result of their different attitude to their own lives. To myself, life is just a song. I can sing it whenever I want.

Anyone who thinks life is a nightmare may hardly succeed because he thinks that everything around he is turn down him. But what I want to say is how important attitude is throughout your life. You are beautiful if you think you are. There's no secret. Do you why all brides are beautiful? Because on their wedding day they care about how they look. There are ugly women only when they don't care or they don't believe they're attractive. In the same way, if you think you are capable for the thing you are going to deal with, then you will make it at last. Believe me, life will never turns down anyone who is full of confidence.

If unfortunately, life pushes you down. Never mind, just stand up and push back.

We, human beings, are the most wise and creative animals in the world. We are full of energy. We can move ourselves forward around any obstacle. Don't let anything stop us. Take strength from meeting the challenges, and move ahead. The difficulty we face are just what we need to fulfill our potential for greatness. Consider the ways in which we have grown, the things we have learned, and our accomplishments. Most of these probably came from overcoming some challenge which make us stronger.

So my conclusion is never pessimistic to yourself, your own life. Never forget that nothing is impossible.